[ARC Review] Are You Coming? by Laura Hiddinga

Are You Coming? by Laura Hiddinga is a fantastic primer for anyone wanting to know more about the ins and outs of the vaginal and clitoral orgasm. Covering everything from basic anatomy to the various types of orgasms and how to have them (and how to have even better ones), this book offers professional and personal advice that you will want to come back to time and time again. With topics ranging from solo excursions to talking with your partner and all the problems you main run into along the way, Are You Coming? is a well-rounded book that deals with both the mental and physical aspects of the orgasm. Easy to read and easy to follow, Hiddinga breaks down all medical terms and explains things with the words and lingo everyone already knows. This book is also inclusive, which is great to see. Instead of just discussing the female orgasm, Are You Coming? respects the differing experiences between, for example, someone assigned female at birth and a trans woman, or a straight couple and a queer couple. The book not only acknowledges that these differences exist, but also provides specific positions or toys that might be beneficial to those not AFAB or in a lesbian relationship. The goal is more people having more happy endings, and Are You Coming? has something for everyone explained in ways everyone can understand.

A big thanks to The Experiment publishers and Netgalley for letting me read and review Are You Coming? in advance of its release date.